My brothers
who travel this world
with your masculinity
on show,
and who respond
in patterns
too oft repeated
and too little condemned,
see the person
in the woman
who stands alone
in her vulnerability.
Lift your souls,
my brothers,
above the murky
ground of desire
and control
that you have
allowed to form,
and imagine
the bitter pain
and the wilful
destruction
that resides
in your penis,
an instrument
that should be
a gift of love,
not a weapon
in your head
to spread
humiliation
and to create
dehumanisation.
My brothers,
I feel the shame
that you bring
to our sex
in the vicious
war of rape,
a global war
in which there
are no sides
and no winners,
only losers,
victims
and pain.
I challenge you
to question
your existence
as a man,
as a fellow
being in
this world,
and listen
to the intent
that echoes
from the words
you utter
to women
and about women.
Dare yourself,
instead,
to live in
the fertile and
gentle grounds
of respect and dignity
in which grow
the best of
what it means
to be human,
and the greatest
of what
it represents
to be a man.
20/5/2016